The spirit of Trafick

Trafick is first and foremost a club for adults to meet. We host libertine nights, BDSM nights and mixed nights, which let these two worlds meet. Some nights are also built around particular themes, activities or aesthetics, in order to keep the experiences fresh.

We don't try to fit everyone into a single kind of night. We prefer to create events in which each person can recognise themselves, according to their desires, their affinities, their experience and their own way of living these different worlds.

This is why each night has its own identity, its own dress code, its own rules and its own dynamic. They all share the same values, however:

These principles are the foundation of our establishment. They allow everyone to enjoy their night with peace of mind, to be free in their choices and to live out their desires in an environment that respects others.

We have also chosen to create a place where adults can keep going out, meet people and share special moments in a calmer, more sensual and more convivial atmosphere than a traditional night out. There is no dance floor here: music accompanies the night, while conversations, encounters and human interactions naturally take first place.

Finally, Trafick evolves with its community. We pay attention to the feedback, ideas and needs expressed by our guests in order to develop our facilities, our rules and our concepts, while staying true to our philosophy.

Respect and consent are not merely stated principles: they must show up concretely in every interaction and throughout all our nights.

Taking part in an event, wearing a particular outfit, a bracelet, a collar or displaying a role never counts as consent. Everyone remains free to observe, to refuse an interaction, to change their mind or to spend their night without practising anything.

We are particularly attentive to behaviour likely to make someone uncomfortable. Insisting after a refusal, following someone around the club, repeating unwanted advances, forcing yourself into an interaction or interrupting a dynamic without being invited are not compatible with the spirit of Trafick.

In the intimate areas, a drawn curtain must be treated as a closed door. It must never be opened without the agreement of the people present. This rule applies whatever the night and lets everyone preserve their privacy and freely choose who they wish to share a moment with.

When problematic behaviour is reported to us or observed, our team steps in quickly. Depending on the situation, this may mean an immediate reminder of the rules, a warning or exclusion from the venue. A serious breach may of course lead to immediate exclusion, without prior warning.

In case of discomfort, doubt or insistent behaviour, everyone is encouraged to speak directly to a member of the team. Reporting a situation does not mean being a nuisance: it allows us to act and to preserve a pleasant, safe environment for all.

Trafick aims to offer a space where many desires and practices can be lived out without judgement. This openness does not, however, mean that every practice is compatible with a venue shared by many participants.

Certain practices requiring particular precautions, notably those that may cause bleeding, are strictly supervised in order to guarantee complete mastery of the equipment, hygiene and waste management.

Other practices are not permitted at Trafick when they are likely to directly impose their consequences on other participants. This is notably the case for scat play, games involving vomiting and ABDL-style scenarios.

This choice is not a judgement on the people concerned or on their kinks. It simply reflects the limits that are necessary in a shared space: everyone must be able to live out their desires without imposing on others smells, splashes, hygiene constraints or an atmosphere they have not chosen to share.

These examples are not an exhaustive list. The rules specific to each event, along with the team's instructions, always remain applicable.

Libertine play, BDSM and mixed nights don't meet the same expectations. A libertine night naturally places encounters and sensuality at the centre of the experience. A BDSM night favours practices, power dynamics, trust and immersion. A mixed night lets these two approaches coexist without forcing you to choose between them.

This diversity is not a needless complication: it lets everyone find the environment that truly suits them. The same participant may well enjoy several dynamics depending on the moment, the people they are with or the experience they wish to have.

Our weeknights are generally the most accessible way to discover Trafick and its different worlds. Wednesdays let you choose a focused approach: discover the venue as a whole, or discover BDSM more specifically. Thursdays already offer a more active dynamic, where libertine play, sexuality and BDSM practices can freely coexist.

Weekend nights are longer, their dress codes are more demanding and their atmosphere is generally more immersive. Newcomers are still welcome, but they should read up on the event's dynamic and understand that a weekend night is not designed as a full introduction.

This distinction is not a mandatory path. An experienced person may enjoy a weeknight for its convivial atmosphere, while someone new but properly informed or accompanied can find their place at the weekend. It is simply a guide to help you choose the experience you're looking for more easily.

🟨 Discover Club — Easing through the door

Every other Wednesday, Discover Club lets you discover Trafick in a particularly accessible and relaxed atmosphere. This night is aimed especially at people who have never visited a libertine or BDSM venue before and want to understand the place, how we work and the different nights on offer before choosing a more specialised experience.

The dress code is deliberately more relaxed than at our other events. Some guests come in relatively classic outfits, while others already choose a more sensual, alternative or BDSM-inspired look.

The bar floor stays entirely devoted to conversation and meeting people: no sexual or BDSM practice is allowed there. More broadly, practices are not put front and centre during this night. Newcomers can gradually make their way down into the different spaces, visit the club, take in its layout and find their bearings without feeling immediately plunged into an overly intense dynamic.

A wristband system makes it easier for newcomers, regulars and people happy to answer questions or guide a first visit to interact.

People who want to discover BDSM more specifically, watch a demonstration and perhaps begin to explore certain practices will be more at home at Discover BDSM, held in alternation with Discover Club.

For us, a libertine night is first and foremost a night for meeting people. Sensuality and sexuality naturally have their place, but they take on their full meaning when they arise from an exchange, an attraction and mutual consent.

We want to create nights where everyone can take the time to talk, get to know one another, share a drink, let affinities form and live the experience at their own pace. No one comes to Trafick under any obligation to meet, seduce or practise.

Encounters play a central role, but they must always form in respect of everyone's wishes. Insistence and repeated advances after a refusal have no place here. The general framework set out above applies naturally, with the same vigilance, during our libertine nights.

To preserve a harmonious dynamic, we also place great importance on the balance of attendance. The presence of single men is therefore deliberately adjusted to the number of couples and single women present at the event.

🟩 Ardeur Partagée — The weekend libertine night

Ardeur Partagée is our weekend libertine night concept when no more specific dynamic is announced. It offers an atmosphere geared towards encounters, seduction, sensuality and exchanges between participants.

People discovering the libertine scene are still welcome. They should nonetheless keep in mind that this is a genuine weekend night: the atmosphere can be bolder than at a discovery night, and everyone is invited to fit into the dynamic present.

Some editions may take on a sub-theme, an activity or an additional name — for example Annonce la couleur — without losing the libertine identity that forms the backbone of the night.

🟩 Ladies Night Libertine

On the first Saturday of each month, the Ladies Night offers a weekend libertine night open to couples, single women and single men. As with all our libertine nights, the presence of single men is adjusted to the attendance of women and couples to preserve a balanced dynamic.

On this occasion, entry is free for women. Two masseurs are usually present to offer them complimentary sessions of around fifteen minutes. Slots are allocated by drawing lots from key numbers, so that everyone has the same chance to enjoy them, regardless of their arrival time.

The Ladies Night fully retains the atmosphere of a weekend libertine night. Less experienced people are naturally welcome, but they should be aware that the dynamic is more immersive than at our midweek discovery nights.

🟪 Couples & single women — La Nuit de l'Échangisme

On the second Saturday of each month, Trafick hosts a libertine night exclusively reserved for couples and single women. No single men are admitted to this event.

This set-up naturally creates a different dynamic from our other libertine nights and meets the expectations of part of our clientele. It nonetheless remains a genuine weekend libertine night, with an atmosphere geared towards encounters and interactions between participants.

The standard concept is usually presented under the name La Nuit de l'Échangisme. Some editions may, however, take on a particular identity when a sub-theme or activity is added, as with the Annonce la couleur nights.

As always, everyone remains entirely free to live the night according to their own desires and pace. The particular make-up of the event creates no expectation or obligation towards the other participants.

BDSM is a world in its own right, with its own culture, its own codes and its own philosophy. Our BDSM nights are built around practices, trust, communication, consent and respect for everyone's limits.

Unlike libertine nights, sexuality truly takes a back seat. A BDSM practice may naturally include a sexual dimension depending on the people and their dynamics, but the purpose of these events remains above all to let BDSM be lived out in a suitable setting.

So-called "vanilla" sexuality must therefore not take the place of BDSM play, monopolise the equipment intended for practices or disrupt scenes in progress. More private interactions can find their place in the enclosed spaces provided for that purpose, as long as they don't disturb other participants, notably through noise.

Two ways to experience BDSM at Trafick

Discover BDSM and our weekend BDSM nights do not pursue the same goal. They are not simply a short version and a long version of the same night: they were designed to meet two different expectations.

🟧 Discover BDSM — Discover, connect and build bonds

Every other Wednesday, Discover BDSM is an accessible gateway into this world. It is perfectly possible to come alone, without a play partner and without any prior experience.

The night lets you ask your questions, talk with practitioners, meet people who share similar desires and start finding your bearings. A demonstration of about thirty minutes regularly puts a practice, a technique or a particular aspect of BDSM in the spotlight. The theme changes from one edition to the next.

A wristband system is also used to make encounters and exchanges between newcomers and regulars easier. Watching is possible, practising too, but nothing is compulsory. The aim is to let everyone move forward at their own pace, in a relaxed, social and pressure-free atmosphere.

At Discover BDSM, conversations can naturally go beyond the kink world and touch on everyday life. The night is designed to get to know one another and build bonds, including with people with whom a dynamic may develop later on.

🟥 The immersive weekend BDSM nights

Our weekend BDSM nights are designed for people who want to devote their evening fully to BDSM practices, scenes and dynamics. Many participants come with their partner, their pairing or their play group, keen to make use of the club's equipment to live out a dynamic already established or prepared in advance.

It is also perfectly possible to come alone. The key is to know what atmosphere to expect, to understand the codes of an immersive night and not to assume the club will automatically arrange encounters or practices. Someone who comes alone can express their availability and desires through their attitude, their outfit or their accessories, while respecting the dynamics already in place and accepting that nothing is owed to them.

You can of course chat, laugh, have a drink, meet people or unwind between scenes. The bar and the smoking lounge remain social spaces, where everyone can catch their breath, share their feelings, talk about practices, dynamics or aftercare.

We nonetheless invite participants to leave, as much as possible, their everyday life outside the club. Discussions about work, politics, last night's game or the concerns of daily life can wait a few hours. Not because they would be forbidden, but because these nights offer a rare chance to step away from your routine and immerse yourself fully in a world you love, are exploring, or are just discovering.

For a few hours, everyone should be able to live out their dynamic, keep their role or simply enjoy the BDSM atmosphere around them. This immersion rests above all on the attention paid to others: not interrupting a scene, not needlessly breaking a dynamic and leaving enough room for the play, which remains at the heart of the night.

Not all of our weekend BDSM nights call for the same level of protocol or discipline. Certain sub-themes may push these codes much further. In every case, our goal stays the same: to offer a lively, convivial and coherent setting in which BDSM is not merely represented, but genuinely lived.

Less experienced people can take part once they have read up, understand the atmosphere of the event or are accompanied by someone able to guide them. Someone who would like a full first explanation, to freely ask all their questions or to be guided through their first steps will, however, find a more suitable setting at the Discover BDSM nights.

❤️ Trash Night — The BDSM members' night

On the last Saturday of each month, the Trash Night is reserved for BDSM members.

This night brings together mainly people who already know the BDSM world, its codes and how the venue works. When participants know each other, trust one another and share a certain experience, they generally dare to develop stronger, more committed or more personal dynamics. The Trash Night thus offers a setting to practise among enthusiasts.

Its atmosphere is deliberately more sensual, more provocative and more uninhibited than that of our other BDSM nights. Unlike them, sexuality that is not directly part of a BDSM dynamic can also find its place here.

This added freedom must always be exercised with respect for others. An interaction, whether BDSM or sexual, must never interrupt a scene, monopolise equipment needed for practices or impose its atmosphere on the people nearby.

The Trash Night is not a night to discover BDSM alone for the first time. It is aimed above all at people who already know the scene and want to enjoy a night among enthusiasts in a bolder dynamic.

Sub-themes and activities to enrich the immersion

Some editions of our BDSM nights spotlight a particular material, aesthetic or fetish. The Latex, Leather or High Heels nights, for example, let people who share these affinities pick a date that especially matches their desires and enrich the event's visual identity.

Other editions include an activity, such as the Roue de l'infortune (Wheel of Misfortune). A part of the bar or the club can then be temporarily devoted to the activity and run by the people assigned to it. In that specific space, the dynamic adapts naturally to the activity, while the rest of the venue keeps the general atmosphere of the BDSM night.

📢 Weekend BDSM concepts in evolution

Our weekend BDSM concepts are currently the subject of research, reflection and changes, with the aim of creating night dynamics that are ever more coherent, clearer and more enjoyable for all participants.

These developments will be presented gradually, once their identity, their workings and their rules have been sufficiently developed. We invite you to check our calendar and our event descriptions regularly to discover the next new features.

Mixed nights were born from a simple observation: some people enjoy libertine play as much as BDSM and don't necessarily want to choose between these two worlds.

These events let libertine encounters, sexuality and BDSM practices coexist freely over the course of a single night. Some participants come above all to socialise and let affinities form, while others arrive with a dynamic or practices already planned. Many enjoy precisely the ability to move naturally from one world to the other.

Tolerance and consideration for others are essential here. The diversity of desires must not lead to disrupting a practice, interrupting an interaction or imposing a dynamic on people who are not taking part in it.

🟦 Jeudi Tout est permis — Discover without choosing

Every Thursday, Tout est permis lets libertine play, sexuality and BDSM coexist within a single event. The night is aimed at people who already enjoy these different worlds, but it is also an excellent gateway for those who want to discover them without having to immediately choose a precise orientation.

The dynamic can be more active than at our Wednesday Discover nights, since BDSM practices and sexuality are both fully allowed. It remains suitable for beginners, however, provided they respect the various interactions present and understand that everyone may have come with very different desires.

The Thursday dress code is more accessible than that of our weekend events. It lets you discover this mixed dynamic in a convivial, open and pressure-free atmosphere, while keeping the essential standards of respect and consent.

A Trav, Drag & Sissy edition

On the last Thursday of each month, Tout est permis especially puts crossdressers, drag queens and Sissies in the spotlight. People coming in a complete outfit matching one of these expressions enjoy a preferential rate equal to the rate usually applied to women.

This gesture aims to encourage those who wish to explore or affirm this facet of their personality to choose a night where their presence is particularly valued. The general philosophy of Tout est permis stays unchanged and the event remains open to the whole clientele.

🔵 Jeux & Désirs — The mixed night in a weekend version

Jeux & Désirs is the weekend version of Jeudi Tout est permis. The rules regarding sexuality and BDSM practices are similar, but the length of the night, its more demanding dress code and the weekend atmosphere allow for a more intense and bolder experience.

Participants can come in an outfit inspired by the libertine world, by BDSM or at the crossroads of the two. Unlike the Kinksters Night, there is no need to adopt an exclusively fetish or alternative appearance: the key is to respect the level of elegance and commitment expected for a weekend night.

Jeux & Désirs keeps a naturally more social dimension than our exclusively BDSM nights. The bar remains a real space for encounters and exchanges, while the play areas let everyone explore their desires in respect of the other dynamics present.

🟣 Kinksters Night — Fetish at the heart of the experience

The Kinksters Night is an immersive night where BDSM, fetish and sexuality can freely coexist. Its identity rests above all on a particularly demanding dress code, designed to turn the whole club into a visual, alternative and resolutely kink world.

On this night, a simply elegant outfit is not enough. A fine classic suit, a traditional evening gown or ordinary clothes remain standard outfits and don't match the experience sought. Latex, leather, vinyl, harnesses, uniforms, alternative creations and the boldest fetish outfits take their place.

This aesthetic is not merely a condition of entry: it is an integral part of the night. The materials, the silhouettes, the accessories and the characters embodied transform interactions and give the event a dimension that is as visual as it is sensory. Even a relatively classic interaction can take on another intensity when it unfolds in this environment.

BDSM practices and sexuality are allowed, in respect of everyone's desires, limits and space. The night nonetheless keeps a marked BDSM and fetish orientation, which is felt throughout the venue.

Special events, several ways to experience them

Throughout the year, Trafick gives certain events a spin around seasonal themes, activities or particular worlds. These nights don't always form a new family: they often take up the philosophy and rules of an existing dynamic, to which a special identity is added.

A single celebration can be offered in several forms so that everyone can choose the atmosphere that suits them. Halloween or Carnival can thus give rise to a libertine edition and to an edition more oriented towards kink and BDSM. The visual theme is shared, but the rules, the dress code and the dynamic remain those of the announced world.

At a Halloween Kinkster, for example, the philosophy of the Kinksters Night remains, with a fetish dress code adapted to Halloween. A libertine edition of the same event will instead favour encounters, sensuality and the dynamic specific to our libertine nights.

Our New Year's night is generally oriented towards BDSM, while also allowing sexuality. It is above all a festive night, meant to be more open on this special moment of the year.

Some one-off nights may also offer a particular blend or rules specific to the event. This is why it is essential to always check the description, the rules and the dress code of the chosen date: the name of the theme is not enough to determine the dynamic of the night.

Programming at a glance

Our calendar evolves over the months, but several regular fixtures make it easy to find your bearings:

• Every other Wednesday: Discover Club and Discover BDSM in alternation.
• Every Thursday: Jeudi Tout est permis, with a Trav, Drag & Sissy edition on the last Thursday of the month.
• First Saturday of the month: Ladies Night Libertine.
• Second Saturday of the month: Couples & single women, usually under the name La Nuit de l'Échangisme.
• Last Saturday of the month: Trash Night, reserved for BDSM members.
• The other Fridays and Saturdays alternate between Ardeur Partagée, immersive BDSM nights, Jeux & Désirs, Kinksters Night and special events.

The site's calendar remains the reference for the exact date, time, price, rules and dress code of each event.

This page presents Trafick's general philosophy and the intention behind our different concepts. It does not replace the information specific to each event. Each date may have its own theme, its own dress code and certain particular rules.

Before your visit, check the calendar to choose your night, the rules to know the expected behaviour and practices, the dress code to prepare your outfit and the practical info to organise your access to the club, including parking and frequently asked questions.